There are moments in life when we feel as though we’re walking on a tightrope, trying to balance our faith and our flaws. We long to live up to the expectations of a God who is both all-powerful and loving, yet we know deep down that, as human beings, we will stumble. We will fall. We will miss the mark. This creates a tension between striving to live according to God’s will and the fear of disappointing Him—of letting Him down in ways that feel beyond repair.
But the fear of the Lord, as we often hear it described, is not the kind of fear that paralyzes us in terror or dread. It’s not the fear we experience when facing danger, pain, or harm. Instead, it is the kind of fear that arises from a deep reverence and awe for God’s holiness, majesty, and purpose for our lives. It’s the recognition that He is God, and we are not. And in that realization, we feel a sense of responsibility—not just to follow His commands but to honor Him with the lives we live.
Take a moment to reflect on the life of a father, a man who strives to provide, protect, and care for his family. He loves his children with all his heart and desires nothing more than to see them succeed and flourish. But, as every parent knows, there are times when their child misses the mark—when they disappoint or make mistakes. As a parent, the love doesn’t fade in those moments. The fear that arises is not of anger or punishment but a deep sorrow that comes from knowing their child didn’t live up to their potential, that they’ve veered from the path that leads to flourishing.
This is the fear I speak of when it comes to God. It’s not the fear of retribution but a fear rooted in love—a desire to live in a way that reflects the goodness of the one who created us. The Psalmist reflects this beautifully in Psalm 112:1, “Praise the Lord! How joyful are those who fear the Lord and delight in obeying His commands!” There is joy in honoring God, in seeking to live according to His will, and in pursuing the life He’s called us to.
Yet, we know that we will make mistakes. No one is perfect. We are all flawed. The Apostle Paul himself writes in Romans 7:18-19, “And I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can’t. I want to do what is good, but I don’t. I don’t want to do what is wrong, but I do it anyway.” Even Paul, the apostle, struggled with sin. This is part of the human condition. We strive to honor God, but we fail. And in our failures, we may feel the weight of disappointment—both ours and God’s.
But here’s the beautiful truth: God’s grace is always greater than our failures. In fact, it is in our imperfection that His grace shines brightest. Grace is the hope that anchors us in the midst of our struggles. It’s the unwavering truth that no matter how many times we fall short, God is there to pick us up, dust us off, and invite us to try again. The fear we feel in striving to live a life pleasing to God is not meant to break us down but to draw us closer to His grace.
When we fear the Lord in this way, it’s not a fear that drives us away from God but one that draws us nearer, understanding that His expectations for us are rooted in love, not in condemnation. As the Apostle John writes, “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love” (1 John 4:18, NLT). God’s perfect love casts out fear because His love is not about punishment but about restoration, forgiveness, and transformation.
This is where our hope lies—knowing that, while we may stumble, God is ever-present with grace to lift us up. He calls us to live in awe of His holiness, to strive to honor Him in all we do, and to accept His forgiveness when we fall short. And through it all, His grace continues to hold us in the tension between striving and failing, between fear and hope.
As you reflect on this, ask yourself: What is the fear of the Lord that calls you to live better, to love more fully, and to serve others? And in those moments when you stumble, how can you rest in the grace that is always there, offering you the strength to rise again?
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your loving grace that meets us in our imperfections. Help us to fear You in the way that leads us closer to You, to honor You in all we do, and to rest in the assurance of Your forgiveness when we fall short. Strengthen us by Your Spirit, and guide us in Your truth, that we may live lives that reflect Your love and Your holiness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Speaking Truth With Courage and Integrity
Speaking Truth with Courage and Integrity
There’s a difference between speaking truth and throwing stones. It’s tempting to address difficult situations from a distance—be it from a pulpit, behind a keyboard, or even within a group. But true courage often requires stepping out of the crowd and speaking directly to someone with love and integrity. This one-on-one approach is not only more challenging but also reflects the heart of God’s desire for reconciliation and restoration.
The story of Nathan confronting King David in 2 Samuel 12:1-7 offers a powerful biblical example. After David’s sin with Bathsheba, Nathan could have rebuked the king publicly or in front of his court. Instead, he approached David privately, using a parable to reveal the gravity of his actions. By speaking to David directly, Nathan not only delivered God’s truth but also provided David an opportunity to repent without humiliation. This kind of confrontation is not about shaming—it’s about guiding someone back to the path of righteousness.
In contrast, consider the story in John 8:3-11, where a crowd brought a woman caught in adultery to Jesus, ready to stone her. The crowd acted in self-righteousness, hiding behind their numbers. But Jesus diffused the situation by calling for personal accountability, saying, “Let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone.” He then spoke to the woman privately, showing her grace and urging her to change her life. This highlights the importance of avoiding mob mentality when addressing sin or wrongdoing.
A more modern example comes from Abraham Lincoln. During his presidency, Lincoln often faced criticism, even from members of his own cabinet. Yet, Lincoln was known for his ability to confront disagreements directly and thoughtfully. One famous instance occurred with Edwin Stanton, his Secretary of War, who initially insulted and opposed Lincoln. Rather than respond publicly or angrily, Lincoln approached Stanton with patience and grace. Over time, their working relationship transformed into one of mutual respect, and Stanton became one of Lincoln’s greatest supporters. Lincoln’s example reminds us that speaking truth directly, with humility, can bring about reconciliation and even strengthen relationships.
On the other hand, we’ve all seen situations where someone criticizes another person from afar—be it in a sermon, on social media, or in gossip. While the words may contain truth, the method often undermines the message. It’s easier to address someone indirectly, but it’s far less effective in bringing about change. As Proverbs 27:6 reminds us, “Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.” A private, honest conversation carries far more weight than a public rebuke that feels impersonal or self-serving.
Practically speaking, approaching someone directly can be uncomfortable. It requires humility, empathy, and a willingness to listen. But it’s also an opportunity to model Christ’s love. Imagine the difference it would make if, instead of criticizing someone in a sermon, a pastor or leader met with them privately to discuss their concerns. That act of courage could open the door to healing, understanding, and transformation.
Jesus modeled this one-on-one approach consistently. He didn’t just preach to crowds; He also engaged individuals like Zacchaeus, Nicodemus, and the Samaritan woman at the well. Each of these encounters was deeply personal, and because of that, they were profoundly impactful. Speaking truth directly to someone, rather than at someone, is an act of love that mirrors Christ’s ministry.
In today’s world, where it’s easy to throw “stones” from behind a pulpit, keyboard, or group of like-minded people, we’re called to a higher standard. Speaking truth to power is not about shaming or overpowering—it’s about seeking reconciliation, restoration, and justice in a way that honors God. So, let’s ask ourselves: Are we speaking truth with courage and integrity, or are we simply throwing stones from a distance?
There’s a difference between speaking truth and throwing stones. It’s tempting to address difficult situations from a distance—be it from a pulpit, behind a keyboard, or even within a group. But true courage often requires stepping out of the crowd and speaking directly to someone with love and integrity. This one-on-one approach is not only more challenging but also reflects the heart of God’s desire for reconciliation and restoration.
The story of Nathan confronting King David in 2 Samuel 12:1-7 offers a powerful biblical example. After David’s sin with Bathsheba, Nathan could have rebuked the king publicly or in front of his court. Instead, he approached David privately, using a parable to reveal the gravity of his actions. By speaking to David directly, Nathan not only delivered God’s truth but also provided David an opportunity to repent without humiliation. This kind of confrontation is not about shaming—it’s about guiding someone back to the path of righteousness.
In contrast, consider the story in John 8:3-11, where a crowd brought a woman caught in adultery to Jesus, ready to stone her. The crowd acted in self-righteousness, hiding behind their numbers. But Jesus diffused the situation by calling for personal accountability, saying, “Let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone.” He then spoke to the woman privately, showing her grace and urging her to change her life. This highlights the importance of avoiding mob mentality when addressing sin or wrongdoing.
A more modern example comes from Abraham Lincoln. During his presidency, Lincoln often faced criticism, even from members of his own cabinet. Yet, Lincoln was known for his ability to confront disagreements directly and thoughtfully. One famous instance occurred with Edwin Stanton, his Secretary of War, who initially insulted and opposed Lincoln. Rather than respond publicly or angrily, Lincoln approached Stanton with patience and grace. Over time, their working relationship transformed into one of mutual respect, and Stanton became one of Lincoln’s greatest supporters. Lincoln’s example reminds us that speaking truth directly, with humility, can bring about reconciliation and even strengthen relationships.
On the other hand, we’ve all seen situations where someone criticizes another person from afar—be it in a sermon, on social media, or in gossip. While the words may contain truth, the method often undermines the message. It’s easier to address someone indirectly, but it’s far less effective in bringing about change. As Proverbs 27:6 reminds us, “Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy.” A private, honest conversation carries far more weight than a public rebuke that feels impersonal or self-serving.
Practically speaking, approaching someone directly can be uncomfortable. It requires humility, empathy, and a willingness to listen. But it’s also an opportunity to model Christ’s love. Imagine the difference it would make if, instead of criticizing someone in a sermon, a pastor or leader met with them privately to discuss their concerns. That act of courage could open the door to healing, understanding, and transformation.
Jesus modeled this one-on-one approach consistently. He didn’t just preach to crowds; He also engaged individuals like Zacchaeus, Nicodemus, and the Samaritan woman at the well. Each of these encounters was deeply personal, and because of that, they were profoundly impactful. Speaking truth directly to someone, rather than at someone, is an act of love that mirrors Christ’s ministry.
In today’s world, where it’s easy to throw “stones” from behind a pulpit, keyboard, or group of like-minded people, we’re called to a higher standard. Speaking truth to power is not about shaming or overpowering—it’s about seeking reconciliation, restoration, and justice in a way that honors God. So, let’s ask ourselves: Are we speaking truth with courage and integrity, or are we simply throwing stones from a distance?
The Cost of Free
In the last couple of weeks, I had a conversation with a friend. Thankfully, we are both relatively mature adults. As we often do, we covered a wide range of topics—family, work, church, sports, theological understandings, and even politics. Remarkably, as the conversation concluded, neither of us felt bruised. Instead, we left smiling, laughing, and even hugging as we went our separate ways.
One topic we touched on was the perennial debate about socialized healthcare, often referred to as “free healthcare.” We quickly agreed that it could never truly be free. Someone would have to bear the cost—ultimately, the taxpayers. The idea of “free” healthcare is, in reality, an illusion.
This led us to discuss free secondary education. Surely, as the “richest” nation on earth, we could afford to educate future generations. We talked about the billions of dollars held in endowments by many colleges and agreed that the cost of attending these institutions could and should be dramatically reduced. But what about those who have already graduated and are burdened with crushing student loan debt?
“Those debts should be forgiven!” one of us proposed. “Forgiven? Like waving a magic wand to make the debt disappear? How does that work?” was the response. Our back-and-forth revealed a reality: student loan forgiveness often transfers the burden of repayment from the borrower to taxpayers who never received the loan’s benefit.
As our conversation wore on, we concluded with a simple truth: “Nothing is free.”
As pastors, this realization seems at odds with the core message of the Gospel: “God’s grace is free to all who believe.” But even God’s saving grace came with a cost. Over 2,000 years ago, the deposit for that grace was laid in a manger—a response to a promise foretold by Isaiah: “To us a child is born, to us a son is given” (Isaiah 9:6, NET).
In this Christmas season, we celebrate that child in the manger—the Son of Man—who taught us to live, love, and give. He bore the price of humanity’s sin so that you and I could be restored to God and one day know eternal life.
Remember, nothing is truly free, especially the gift we celebrate this season. May God’s love overflow in your life today and always.
— The Daily Fisherman
One topic we touched on was the perennial debate about socialized healthcare, often referred to as “free healthcare.” We quickly agreed that it could never truly be free. Someone would have to bear the cost—ultimately, the taxpayers. The idea of “free” healthcare is, in reality, an illusion.
This led us to discuss free secondary education. Surely, as the “richest” nation on earth, we could afford to educate future generations. We talked about the billions of dollars held in endowments by many colleges and agreed that the cost of attending these institutions could and should be dramatically reduced. But what about those who have already graduated and are burdened with crushing student loan debt?
“Those debts should be forgiven!” one of us proposed. “Forgiven? Like waving a magic wand to make the debt disappear? How does that work?” was the response. Our back-and-forth revealed a reality: student loan forgiveness often transfers the burden of repayment from the borrower to taxpayers who never received the loan’s benefit.
As our conversation wore on, we concluded with a simple truth: “Nothing is free.”
As pastors, this realization seems at odds with the core message of the Gospel: “God’s grace is free to all who believe.” But even God’s saving grace came with a cost. Over 2,000 years ago, the deposit for that grace was laid in a manger—a response to a promise foretold by Isaiah: “To us a child is born, to us a son is given” (Isaiah 9:6, NET).
In this Christmas season, we celebrate that child in the manger—the Son of Man—who taught us to live, love, and give. He bore the price of humanity’s sin so that you and I could be restored to God and one day know eternal life.
Remember, nothing is truly free, especially the gift we celebrate this season. May God’s love overflow in your life today and always.
— The Daily Fisherman
Celebrating Joy
“We Speak Different Languages but Often Say the Same Thing”
C. S. Lewis – “That Hideous Strength”
I was struck by this quote as I read it this morning, especially in light of the climate we find ourselves in today. Whether it’s a disagreement within the Church or differences in political ideology, we seem to be more focused on being right than on being righteous.
Think about this: we cannot even get through what is supposed to be one of the most joy-filled seasons of the year without arguing over words. If I offer you a cheerful “Merry Christmas,” it’s not an attempt to impose my Judeo-Christian values on you. Instead, it’s my way of offering a blessing, wishing you joy during this sacred season. Similarly, if you say “Happy Hanukkah” to me, I should be ecstatic that you’ve chosen to invite me into a celebration of light and illumination that holds deep meaning in your life. In a sense, your greeting is a gift—a desire for me to experience the joy that this season brings to you.
We can continue with other greetings, like “Happy Kwanzaa,” which is a celebration of culture through feasting, family, and community, or “Happy Holidays,” a broader acknowledgment of the various festivities and time spent with loved ones. Each of these greetings, though spoken differently, carries a shared intention: to spread goodwill, joy, and a sense of connection.
The apostle Paul reminds us in Romans 12:10 (NLT): “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” What better way to embody this than by receiving each other’s greetings with grace and gratitude? Instead of focusing on what separates us, we can choose to celebrate the love and joy that unite us.
So, in this season—whatever it is you are celebrating—I encourage you to look beyond the words and recognize that we are often speaking the same things, only in different languages. When someone offers you a greeting, they are extending a piece of their heart and their joy to you. Let us enter each day with joy, prepared to love and embrace one another.
May we be people who focus less on being right and more on being righteous, reflecting God’s love and peace in all we do.
C. S. Lewis – “That Hideous Strength”
I was struck by this quote as I read it this morning, especially in light of the climate we find ourselves in today. Whether it’s a disagreement within the Church or differences in political ideology, we seem to be more focused on being right than on being righteous.
Think about this: we cannot even get through what is supposed to be one of the most joy-filled seasons of the year without arguing over words. If I offer you a cheerful “Merry Christmas,” it’s not an attempt to impose my Judeo-Christian values on you. Instead, it’s my way of offering a blessing, wishing you joy during this sacred season. Similarly, if you say “Happy Hanukkah” to me, I should be ecstatic that you’ve chosen to invite me into a celebration of light and illumination that holds deep meaning in your life. In a sense, your greeting is a gift—a desire for me to experience the joy that this season brings to you.
We can continue with other greetings, like “Happy Kwanzaa,” which is a celebration of culture through feasting, family, and community, or “Happy Holidays,” a broader acknowledgment of the various festivities and time spent with loved ones. Each of these greetings, though spoken differently, carries a shared intention: to spread goodwill, joy, and a sense of connection.
The apostle Paul reminds us in Romans 12:10 (NLT): “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” What better way to embody this than by receiving each other’s greetings with grace and gratitude? Instead of focusing on what separates us, we can choose to celebrate the love and joy that unite us.
So, in this season—whatever it is you are celebrating—I encourage you to look beyond the words and recognize that we are often speaking the same things, only in different languages. When someone offers you a greeting, they are extending a piece of their heart and their joy to you. Let us enter each day with joy, prepared to love and embrace one another.
May we be people who focus less on being right and more on being righteous, reflecting God’s love and peace in all we do.
Listening
“The first duty of love is to listen.” – Paul Tillich
In the contentious nature of today’s society, it seems that few of us desire to live out this first duty—to truly listen. We are often eager to have our points heard, but reluctant to take even a moment to consider a different perspective. Instead, we rush to articulate our limited understanding, drop the proverbial mic, and move on.
Alan Alda once said, “Listening is being open to change through the other person.” That is a remarkable idea. As I grow older (and, I hope, wiser), this truth resonates more deeply with me. Yet, I must admit that I often approach conversations with a set of beliefs I am confident are correct. They may indeed be right for me and my current context, but for my neighbor, they might not fit. Even now, in writing this, I find myself tempted to speak in absolutes rather than embracing the need to be more fluid, like water.
The truth is, I believe each of us can learn from others—their successes, their failures—but only if we are more willing to listen than to speak, to learn rather than to teach, and even to admit when we are wrong. This doesn’t mean blind agreement; listening is about understanding, broadening our perspectives, and cultivating a willingness to grow.
James, the servant of the Lord and earthly brother of Jesus, offers this wisdom:
“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry” (James 1:19, NLT).
As followers of Jesus, we would be wise to heed this advice. While I know I will continue to struggle, imagine how different our communities could be if we were even half as eager to listen as we are to share our opinions or make demands. Imagine if our first step in loving our neighbor was to listen.
Holy God, open my ears and hold my tongue. Help me to hear my siblings in Christ and love them as You love us. Amen.
In the contentious nature of today’s society, it seems that few of us desire to live out this first duty—to truly listen. We are often eager to have our points heard, but reluctant to take even a moment to consider a different perspective. Instead, we rush to articulate our limited understanding, drop the proverbial mic, and move on.
Alan Alda once said, “Listening is being open to change through the other person.” That is a remarkable idea. As I grow older (and, I hope, wiser), this truth resonates more deeply with me. Yet, I must admit that I often approach conversations with a set of beliefs I am confident are correct. They may indeed be right for me and my current context, but for my neighbor, they might not fit. Even now, in writing this, I find myself tempted to speak in absolutes rather than embracing the need to be more fluid, like water.
The truth is, I believe each of us can learn from others—their successes, their failures—but only if we are more willing to listen than to speak, to learn rather than to teach, and even to admit when we are wrong. This doesn’t mean blind agreement; listening is about understanding, broadening our perspectives, and cultivating a willingness to grow.
James, the servant of the Lord and earthly brother of Jesus, offers this wisdom:
“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry” (James 1:19, NLT).
As followers of Jesus, we would be wise to heed this advice. While I know I will continue to struggle, imagine how different our communities could be if we were even half as eager to listen as we are to share our opinions or make demands. Imagine if our first step in loving our neighbor was to listen.
Holy God, open my ears and hold my tongue. Help me to hear my siblings in Christ and love them as You love us. Amen.
Trust In God
Psalm 4
1Answer me when I call to you,
O God who declares me innocent.
Free me from my troubles.
Have mercy on me and hear my prayer.
2How long will you people ruin my reputation?
How long will you make groundless accusations?
How long will you continue your lies?
3You can be sure of this:
The Lord set apart the godly for himself.
The Lord will answer when I call to him.
4Don’t sin by letting anger control you.
Think about it overnight and remain silent.
5Offer sacrifices in the right spirit,
and trust the Lord.
6Many people say, “Who will show us better times?”
Let your face smile on us, Lord.
7You have given me greater joy
than those who have abundant harvests of grain and new wine.
8In peace I will lie down and sleep,
for you alone, O Lord, will keep me safe.
Psalm 4 offers profound insights into navigating life’s challenges with faith and courage, making it particularly relevant for men facing various struggles. Like King David, who openly cried out to God in his distress, men are encouraged to acknowledge their difficulties and turn to God for help. In a world often characterized by pressure to appear strong and self-reliant, Psalm 4 reminds us of the power of vulnerability before our Creator. Through honest dialogue with God, men can find strength in admitting their struggles and seeking His guidance. This psalm serves as a beacon of hope, affirming that even in the darkest moments, God’s presence offers solace and direction. As we delve into the depths of Psalm 4, may men find courage to lean on God amidst adversity, trusting in His unfailing love and provision.”
In the opening verses of Psalm 4, we witness King David’s raw honesty as he pours out his heart to God in the midst of adversity. David’s example challenges men to embrace vulnerability and transparency in their relationship with God, recognizing that true strength is found in acknowledging struggles rather than concealing them. As men navigate the complexities of life, whether it be career pressures, family conflicts, or personal insecurities, Psalm 4 encourages them to follow David’s lead by lifting their burdens before God’s throne. By acknowledging their struggles and seeking God’s help, men can experience a profound sense of liberation and peace, knowing that they are not alone in their journey.
The power of Psalm 4 lies in its invitation for men to cultivate a deeper intimacy with God through authentic prayer and dependence. Instead of relying solely on their own abilities or seeking fulfillment in temporary pleasures, men are called to trust in God’s unwavering faithfulness and provision. David’s confidence in God’s favor serves as a beacon of hope, reminding men that their worth and security ultimately come from their relationship with their Heavenly Father. By turning to God with open hearts and humble spirits, men can find strength to face life’s challenges with courage and resilience, knowing that they are upheld by the Almighty who never fails to hear their cries.
In the subsequent verses of Psalm 4, we delve into David’s unwavering trust in God’s faithfulness and provision. His steadfast confidence in God’s favor stands as a powerful reminder for men to prioritize their trust in God over worldly pursuits. David contrasts the fleeting pleasures of material wealth with the enduring peace that comes from trusting in God. This resonates deeply with men who often face the pressures of societal expectations and the allure of success. Psalm 4 calls men to reevaluate their priorities and find true contentment in their relationship with God rather than in external achievements or possessions.
Furthermore, Psalm 4 underscores the importance of finding solace in God’s presence, particularly during times of adversity. David’s acknowledgment of God’s blessings and protection serves as an inspiration for men to seek refuge in the Almighty. Amidst life’s storms, men are encouraged to draw near to God through prayer, meditation, and the study of His Word. By fostering a deeper relationship with God, men can cultivate a sense of peace that surpasses understanding, enabling them to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and resilience. Psalm 4 offers a profound invitation for men to find their strength, security, and peace in the loving embrace of their Heavenly Father.
In conclusion, Psalm 4 serves as a timeless guide for men, inviting them to embrace vulnerability, trust in God’s provision, and find solace in His presence. Through the honest lament of King David, men are encouraged to lay bare their struggles before God, knowing that He hears and cares for them deeply. This psalm challenges men to redefine strength not as self-reliance or worldly success, but as a humble dependence on the unfailing love and guidance of their Creator.
As men journey through life’s trials and triumphs, may Psalm 4 echo in their hearts as a source of courage and assurance. Let them take refuge in the promises of God, knowing that He is their rock and their redeemer. May they find peace in His presence, strength in His provision, and joy in His unfailing love. As men live out the principles of Psalm 4, may they inspire others to seek after God wholeheartedly, trusting in Him as their ultimate source of strength and security.
1Answer me when I call to you,
O God who declares me innocent.
Free me from my troubles.
Have mercy on me and hear my prayer.
2How long will you people ruin my reputation?
How long will you make groundless accusations?
How long will you continue your lies?
3You can be sure of this:
The Lord set apart the godly for himself.
The Lord will answer when I call to him.
4Don’t sin by letting anger control you.
Think about it overnight and remain silent.
5Offer sacrifices in the right spirit,
and trust the Lord.
6Many people say, “Who will show us better times?”
Let your face smile on us, Lord.
7You have given me greater joy
than those who have abundant harvests of grain and new wine.
8In peace I will lie down and sleep,
for you alone, O Lord, will keep me safe.
Psalm 4 offers profound insights into navigating life’s challenges with faith and courage, making it particularly relevant for men facing various struggles. Like King David, who openly cried out to God in his distress, men are encouraged to acknowledge their difficulties and turn to God for help. In a world often characterized by pressure to appear strong and self-reliant, Psalm 4 reminds us of the power of vulnerability before our Creator. Through honest dialogue with God, men can find strength in admitting their struggles and seeking His guidance. This psalm serves as a beacon of hope, affirming that even in the darkest moments, God’s presence offers solace and direction. As we delve into the depths of Psalm 4, may men find courage to lean on God amidst adversity, trusting in His unfailing love and provision.”
In the opening verses of Psalm 4, we witness King David’s raw honesty as he pours out his heart to God in the midst of adversity. David’s example challenges men to embrace vulnerability and transparency in their relationship with God, recognizing that true strength is found in acknowledging struggles rather than concealing them. As men navigate the complexities of life, whether it be career pressures, family conflicts, or personal insecurities, Psalm 4 encourages them to follow David’s lead by lifting their burdens before God’s throne. By acknowledging their struggles and seeking God’s help, men can experience a profound sense of liberation and peace, knowing that they are not alone in their journey.
The power of Psalm 4 lies in its invitation for men to cultivate a deeper intimacy with God through authentic prayer and dependence. Instead of relying solely on their own abilities or seeking fulfillment in temporary pleasures, men are called to trust in God’s unwavering faithfulness and provision. David’s confidence in God’s favor serves as a beacon of hope, reminding men that their worth and security ultimately come from their relationship with their Heavenly Father. By turning to God with open hearts and humble spirits, men can find strength to face life’s challenges with courage and resilience, knowing that they are upheld by the Almighty who never fails to hear their cries.
In the subsequent verses of Psalm 4, we delve into David’s unwavering trust in God’s faithfulness and provision. His steadfast confidence in God’s favor stands as a powerful reminder for men to prioritize their trust in God over worldly pursuits. David contrasts the fleeting pleasures of material wealth with the enduring peace that comes from trusting in God. This resonates deeply with men who often face the pressures of societal expectations and the allure of success. Psalm 4 calls men to reevaluate their priorities and find true contentment in their relationship with God rather than in external achievements or possessions.
Furthermore, Psalm 4 underscores the importance of finding solace in God’s presence, particularly during times of adversity. David’s acknowledgment of God’s blessings and protection serves as an inspiration for men to seek refuge in the Almighty. Amidst life’s storms, men are encouraged to draw near to God through prayer, meditation, and the study of His Word. By fostering a deeper relationship with God, men can cultivate a sense of peace that surpasses understanding, enabling them to navigate life’s challenges with confidence and resilience. Psalm 4 offers a profound invitation for men to find their strength, security, and peace in the loving embrace of their Heavenly Father.
In conclusion, Psalm 4 serves as a timeless guide for men, inviting them to embrace vulnerability, trust in God’s provision, and find solace in His presence. Through the honest lament of King David, men are encouraged to lay bare their struggles before God, knowing that He hears and cares for them deeply. This psalm challenges men to redefine strength not as self-reliance or worldly success, but as a humble dependence on the unfailing love and guidance of their Creator.
As men journey through life’s trials and triumphs, may Psalm 4 echo in their hearts as a source of courage and assurance. Let them take refuge in the promises of God, knowing that He is their rock and their redeemer. May they find peace in His presence, strength in His provision, and joy in His unfailing love. As men live out the principles of Psalm 4, may they inspire others to seek after God wholeheartedly, trusting in Him as their ultimate source of strength and security.
Take Heart
Been a crazy week, not bad, but filled, busy, stressful to say the least. You see my wife and I are trying to get ready for vacation, a blessed and much anticipated respite from work. If you have ever taken some time off, you understand what I mean by stressful. Meetings, completion of paperwork due while I’m away, tying up loose ends and then one last, unexpected pandemic issue. Talk about a chaotic time, but then I read these words offered by Jesus in the Gospel of John,
” And everything I’ve taught you is so that the peace which is in me will be in you and will give you great confidence as you rest in me. For in this unbelieving world, you will experience trouble and sorrow, but you must take heart for I have overcome the world.” John 16:33
Take heart, that is be encouraged I, [Jesus], have overcome the world. Reading these words, I realized that Jesus was about to be arrested, to be crucified, to die and be resurrected. Jesus was telling the disciples then and each of us as followers today, trouble is around, difficult times will find us. We may be confused or even overwhelmed. That knowing this it may be easier to pull back or turn away but rather we must be encouraged, that we are in relationship with One that is greater. That through our relationship with Jesus, in our acceptance of the Holy Spirit as our companion, God is present in our lives. Jesus says, take heart.
When this world feels as though it will wash over you, overwhelm you I encourage you to take heart, remembering your relationship with Jesus, remembering these things, that our pain is not wasted, that God can use the difficult season each of us experience and that we find peace knowing that Jesus has overcome, has conquered the world. Take heart in that.
Prayer: “Lord, I know that you are present in my life and when that vision waivers open my eyes wider, help me to reach a bit higher, make my ears more sensitive to your word, that I might be encouraged, that I take heart in the peace you offer. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Give It Up
“Bless the Lord! The God of our salvation supports us day after day!” Psalms 68:19
This selection is written from the experiences of David himself. Each of us know burdens, anxieties, and struggles, am I right? David, someone we say is chasing after God was no exception. He knew the worries and burdens and struggles of life. David was seen by his father and siblings as unimportant and neglected. Saul, the king persecuted him, and his own son betrayed him, so he knew what each of us experience in our lives, in sharing this lesson.
The first thing he does is divert our attention, reminding us of who is in our lives. He says, “Blessed be the Lord! God of our salvation…” Even when we are faced with questions about our future, worry about our family and/or our relationship, even when we may face anxieties about the world that surround us, we are to praise God, the Lord is our salvation, the one who will protect us, look out for us save us! The one, who as the scripture tells us will “…support us day after day!”
God is there next to us in every battle that we face, every struggle we encounter, with each fear that we have, but we must give them over to God. The Apostle Peter tells us, “Cast, throw all your cares, your worries, your burdens your anxieties onto the Lord because He cares about you.” (1 Peter 5:7 CEB)
You see for this to work, we must learn to trust that God is there, that God cares about us, that God is much more capable of dealing with our struggles and worries than any of us. When we begin to trust God turning over our burdens, with our worries, with our anxieties, we finally begin to realize the peace that comes from trusting and resting in the arms of God.
I encourage you to take a moment to lift up that which is laying heavily upon you. Give praise to the Lord. The God of our salvation is here to care for us, to support us and to carry the struggles, the burdens, and the worries in our life.
Prayer: “Lord, I trust that you are here. I give to you the things that I am struggling with and trust in you to carry that weight. Let me know the peace of your presence. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Witnesses
Have you ever thought “why am I the way I am” or, “why do I do or say things that way”? I suspect it is a question many of us have asked, I know I have, until I look back at my parents, my friends, the people who surround me and my experiences then it starts to make sense. You see, we are or maybe better said, we tend to reflect the people who surround us and the examples we see.
Think about the meals you prepare. Some are filled with nostalgic reflections of a moment in your childhood or in your life, aren’t they? Or, the funny sayings or the way you pronounce something, I suspect, if you go back into your youth, you will find someone offering the same phrase or twisting their tongue around a word in the same funny way that you do. Children follow their parents in service in the military, college selections and professions. We often do things because we have witnessed someone else do it before us, do it first.
We see witness to this in. John 4:19 which reads, “We ourselves love now because He, God, loved us first.”
We know love because we have witnessed God’s love all around us from our very first breath. In the creation that surrounds us from the streams of living water to the mountain’s majesty, the birds and flowers, the air that breath, the trees that offer shade. God’s love can be witnessed throughout creation.
(Enter midnight infomercial) But wait there’s more! We know God’s love through Jesus Christ, through the words that he taught, offering that the love of God and the love of neighbor are the two most vital commands we are to follow. Loving us to his death and beyond, overcoming death and sharing that victory with us, that those things that hold us to this world no longer hold their grip on us.
Finally, we witness love in the companion that God sent to be by our side in all things, in the Holy Spirit. That Spirit is God’s presence, next to us and within us that we may never be alone. In the darkest of valleys and in the highest of mountain peaks we know Emanuel, God with us, holding us and loving us where we are.
Consider this, we spend a lifetime seeking unconditional love, that we will never have to change, yet God loves us unconditionally and because of that we want to change. It is that very love that we have seen in all that surrounds us. It may have been parents or grandparents, teachers or coaches, friends or partners. So, now that you have been a witness to that unconditional, meet you where you are love I challenge you to find situations, to find opportunities, to find people around you to begin to share and teach that love to another, showing them not just who you are but whose you are.
Prayer: “Thank you Lord for the love you have shared with me in my life. As I have witnessed that love allow me now to share it to those I encounter. I pray that you hold me tightly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Aren’t You One of His Children
“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the self with its passions and desires.” Galatians 5:24
My family moved back to my father’s childhood community after he had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. While he never shared this with me, I am sure he wanted us to be in the one place where he felt the comfort and love of community.
One Saturday, several years after he passed, I walked into the bank, I was picking up change for the business for whom I was working. The teller looked at me, looked away for a moment and then looked back and asked if I was Raymond’s boy. With a confused look I replied that I was. She smiled and said, “I thought so, you look just like the boy I knew.”
It’s kind of fun to hear that, to have someone tell you that you look like or talk like someone you love in your life. Imagine the power and the peace if we allowed ourselves to look like Jesus. The good news is, when we give up, when we destroy, when we crucify our old self. That self who gets angry, the one who experiences moments of hatred toward others, the one who thinks of self before neighbor, that one who is of this world. When we get rid of all of that, we can then begin to know that new life and that new image.
And it is possible through the power of the Holy Spirit, but we must be willing to submit to that transformative power. Offering words of kindness rather than anger, forgiving instead of holding a grudge. Removing all signs of hate and loving our neighbor.
When we begin to turn loose of these things, these attitudes, these emotions, we begin to take off the old life and start to put on new life, new opportunity and a new image, the image of Jesus Christ and who knows, you might have someone ask, “Aren’t you one of His children.”
Prayer: “God you are my Shepherd, offer me courage today to turn loose of the one that I am in this world and become the one that I am supposed to be in you. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Try to do good
Make sure no one repays a wrong with a wrong, but always pursue the good for each other and everyone else. 1 Thessalonians 5:16
What a profound but difficult concept by which to live, am I right? I mean, when someone does something we don’t like or that hurts us, our primal response is to lash out, to respond in a way that allows us to “be even”. Yet that’s not the message that the apostle Paul shares in this message.
Rather what Paul does is offer witness to the manner in which God responds to you and me, his children. He is offering the life of Jesus Christ. In life we are going to experience times where someone will hurt us, take from us, threaten us with their words and with their actions and as a follower of Christ we are called to love, to forgive, to simply remove ourselves from the situation by walking away.
I think about the story of Jesus’ crucifixion, where he was beaten, ridiculed, and mercilessly nailed to the cross, yet what are some of the last words attributed to Jesus, “Father, forgive them…” (Luke 23:34).
We each will face situations where people try to hurt us, to use us, abuse us, to make fun of us or undermine the hard work we have been doing. And, the truth is, it is going to be tempting to seek revenge or repay them with evil, “wrong for wrong”, but the God we serve does not operate like that. We are shown through Jesus that God is a God of mercy, of grace, of forgiveness and of love. As claimed followers of Jesus Christ we need to try and respond in the ways that we have been shown.
It’s not easy and most likely we are not going to be able to do this in every situation, but we should, no, we must try. Try to do good for each other. Try to forgive those who have hurt us. Try to pray for them. Try to love them. In this way not only will you be a reflection of whose you are, but you will begin to know the peace that only God can offer.
Prayer: “Lord, be with me always and in those times when someone does something to hurt me, help me to remove myself and to respond as you would, with mercy, with forgiveness and with love. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Stubborn McStubbornson
“For whoever wants to save his own life will destroy it, but whoever destroys his life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News will save it.” Mark 8:35
I believe that the message in this selection offers us both challenge and encouragement and hope. It challenges our very nature. Few of us want to rely on another in our lives, we will do most anything so that we do not give up control. Am I right?
I know for me, I find it difficult to ask for help, to not be in control of what is going on around me, to have a plan to deal with what ever might be going on in my life, and my son can be the same way. I remember when he was very young, he had a Thomas the Tank Engine and the wooden track it would go around on. One of the very first times we got the track out and he was trying to put something together, he didn’t want any help. When I offered, he got very frustrated and told me, “No daddy, I want to do it myself.” After continuing to struggle for some time trying to get the track to come together in a continuous “loop”, he came to me with a piece of track in each hand, lifted them up and asked for help.
That is the challenge, in our lives and in this world, we face constant struggles. We face circumstances we cannot handle on our own but yet because we are Stubborn McStubbornson we refuse to ask for help even though, and here is the encouragement and hope, God is waiting to step in, to intercede on our behalf, we simply must admit that we cannot do it, we cannot face it, we cannot handle it on our own. That we just cannot get our track to come together on our own. When we submit our lives to God, we begin to know the comfort of that presence, that even when we face difficult times, when our track just won’t quite line up, God is present there with us.
I would encourage you to take a look at what’s going on in your life in this moment and rather than shutting God out, ask that you know that presence. Bring those two pieces of track, holding them up, asking for help, and simply submit to the presence and power of God
Prayer: “Lord, I know you are there, you are present always, simply waiting to hear my call to you. Grant me the courage to submit my problems and my whole life to you. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Whenever I’m Afraid
As I sit in front of the screen and keyboard this morning, rain is falling along with some lightening and thunder, and I cannot help but think about my mom and her fear of thunderstorms.
Let me explain, Mom grew up in war time England, beginning in 1940 through the end of World War II, she would hear planes overhead, the weapons falling and the explosions, as she explained, all around her and her family. So, the crashing of a midwest thunderstorm would always put her on edge creating both anxiety and fear.
If we are honest with ourselves, worry, fear, anxiety or what ever the name you put on it is a part of each of our lives. It could be a fear of storms as mom experienced. We could be worried about the new school year, a new job or new experience. We could be anxious about the future of our relationships, the results of medical testing or our future. The thing is concerns are a part of our lives and that is ok.
David tells us as much in Psalm 56:3 which reads, “whenever I’m afraid, I put my trust in you”
Did you read that, David, the one whom God called and who was anointed to lead a nation? The David who faced and defeated a giant, said, “whenever I’m afraid”. He not only understood but experienced fear in his life, but he knew the faithfulness of God. David knew that even when he walked through difficult times, when he traveled through dark valleys he could trust God, because God was always present.
We can experience the same level of comfort and trust that David shares in this statement through the promise Jesus offered before ascending into heaven. Jesus promised to send a comforter, the Holy Spirit of God, to be with us through all experiences and situations.
Our trust can be built up by acknowledging that presence whenever we are afraid, with what a friend calls sentence prayers. Thinks like, “Thank you Lord for being with me right now.”, or “Thank you God that your Holy Spirit is right here next to me.” or one of my favorites “Thank you Father, for the way the Holy Spirit is fighting for me right now.”
As we begin to acknowledge the presence of God in our lives, in the difficulties, in the dark valleys our trust grows and in that we can find comfort. So today, as you feel your anxiety level inching up, fears beginning to get to you or your mind cannot stop worrying about the future, acknowledge God’s presence. Whenever you are afraid place your trust in God.
Prayer, “Almighty God, thank you for Your presence here with me. Thank you for the Holy Spirit and the ways You are moving in my life. Help me find comfort in knowing you are always near me. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen
Do as I do…
“Therefore, imitate God like dearly loved children. 2 Live your life with love, following the example of Christ, who loved us and gave himself for us. He was a sacrificial offering that smelled sweet to God.” Ephesians 5:1-2
Wow did July go fast! In a way I am reminded of the song, Cat’s in the Cradle, by Harry Chapin. For those of you who have heard the song, I’d bet by now you’re singing the chorus, “and the cats in the cradle, and the silver spoon…”. I’ll let you continue to sing while I explain the song to those who may not have ever heard it.
The song is an exchange between a father and his son. At first the father tells the son that he’s really to busy at the moment to spend time with him, work has him here or there and well you know, sadly he’s busy. A little later on, the song comes around and now the father desires to spend time with his son but sadly, the son now grown is very busy. It is a sad reminder of how quickly time goes by, especially when we get busy in our lives.
The song also reminds us of how as children we do a lot of the same things that our parents did. In the song the son witnessed the hectic schedule kept by the father and now, well he is imitating him.
Do you remember, getting into your mom or dad’s closet, putting on their shoes and then walking around? For me I did something different my father for most of his professional career was in some kind of military or federal investigation and/or law enforcement. On this particular day, dad was out of town, traveling for work, and I wanted to be like him. I found a pair of handcuffs he kept in his office and put them on. Seems I was a natural because I got them on tight enough, I couldn’t pull my hands through. I can’t tell you how many times he had told this curious 4-year-old, not to mess with them. Boy, was I going to be in trouble! Fear of the situation and of mom’s reaction allowed me to muster a few tears as I called out her name.
When she walked in the frustration was evident and immediately, she went to where dad kept the keys. They weren’t there. She checked a couple of more spots, but it seems dad had taken them with him. What’s a mom to do when her son, has locked himself in a set of handcuffs? Call the police! Within 5 minutes, two huge members of Chicago’s finest were at the door, ready to see why this woman’s son was sitting in the living room wearing handcuffs. They were surprised when they saw me, just trying to imitate my father.
For most of us, hearing what we should do isn’t as easy as imitating what we see being done. In our heavenly Father, we witness many things. We witness, creation, take a moment to step outside and look around at the work of God’s hands. We witness love in the people who are in our lives, possibly our parents, our children, our siblings, our partners, and spouses and in our friends. In the documented life of Jesus, we find not only sacrificial love but grace, mercy, and forgiveness.
In a way, it almost seems as though the Apostle Paul (author of Ephesians) had heard that song by Harry Chapin, knowing that as children, we are more likely to do what we see rather than what we have heard. Strive each day to be imitators of the abundance each of us knows through the presence of God in our lives.
Let’s pray; “God, you show us the way, the way to love, the way to forgive, the way to serve, help us to be more like you, that we might be imitators of you. Hold us firmly and guide us gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Within
Earlier this week one of the passages I read was Psalms 139:23-24 which offers this prayer “Search me thoroughly, O God, and know my heart’ Test me and know my anxious thoughts; and see if there is any wicked or hurtful way in me and lead me in the everlasting way.
I can recall the first time I ever heard this Psalm; I was intimidated, and I was fearful. I mean think about that, inviting God in to examine your heart and your thoughts, that is huge, right? But as I thought about, and prayed about it and frankly matured some, it this means much more than that. It is admitting how much we need God; that we need the Father’s presence so desperately. What we are doing is calling on God to come into our heart and our mind and our life to examine us and then to lead us. When we offer this prayer, we are asking God to reconcile with us, to bring us close to Him and His ways, to God’s eternal ways. To a life that is ruled by God’s faithful love and a life that fills us with hope and offer us peace.
Know that Gods love, the hope and peace that God brings into our lives does not start at the tip of our extended finger. Peace begins with each of us and with this prayer. O God come search me, examine me, and lead me out of the ways of this word and into your eternal ways, your ways of love, of grace and of peace. When we begin to truly experience this life it is like filling a cup to overflowing slowly the water isn’t just contain within the cup, it moves beyond, it covers all that surrounds it.
Similarly, when we know God’s love, through the Son, Jesus Christ, the walls of our heart are broken down and that love, that grace and that peace fills us to overflowing, we begin to cover those who are near to us, those who surround us, but it all starts with you.
I encourage you to read the 139th Psalm and pray over it, pray this prayer; Search me O God and know my heart, test me, and know my thoughts, and lead me in Your everlasting way, and asP you know that He is our peace.
Pots and Pans
“If I speak in tongues of human beings and of angels but I do not have love, I am a clanging gong or a clashing cymbal.” 1 Corinthians 13:1
As I read this scripture, I can’t help but have a smile come to my face envisioning a 3- or 4-year-old who has drug out pots, pans and pie tins to clang and bang them together. There is no rhyme or rhythm to it. Rather, it is the child expressing themselves, focusing on what will make them feel good, what will make them happy.
Sometimes as adults, we do the exact same thing but with what we say and what we type out. Don’t believe me, go back over your conversations, the things that you have said or typed out and ask yourself if it was done in love. Was I encouraging, was accepting, were the words I used helpful and did those words offer an example of God’s presence in my life, or did I drag out some pots and pans and make myself happy?
It can be difficult; it is a regular struggle for me. I cannot tell you how many times I drag out the pots and pans, look around and realize what I am about to do or sadly what I have already done. I think back to three simply rules offered by John Wesley, found of the Methodist movement. Those rules, do no harm, do good and remain in love with God, I am slowly learning to take a breath and reflect on Wesley’s rules. In doing so, I find that I am a clanging gong or a crashing cymbal a little less often.
I would encourage you, to go back over your communication, if for no other reason but to see what has you dragging out your pots and pans. Knowing the reasons helps you to identify those moments when you may need to take a breath, reflect on the rules, or ask yourself am I about to be a noisy cymbal. In doing so, you will find not only peace in your heart but also peace in your life.
Prayer: “Lord God I am thankful for today! Help me to be less like a ganging gong and more like a reflection of Jesus in my life. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Solid Ground
“Everybody who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise builder who built a house on bedrock.” Matthew 7:24
There I was on the banks of the river, it was late afternoon on a warm spring day, and the trout were biting. I found a spot that most would not try to get to because the pebble and rock covered bank was steep. Suddenly, the pebbles and rocks began to shift, throwing me off balance and shoulder first into the 50-degree water. It’s fine, go ahead, laugh. I did and so did my best friend as he told me I would have to ride back to the hotel in the BACK of his truck.
Looking back, “I ask myself where this wisdom was?” But Jesus isn’t talking about fishing, where or how to stand on a riverbank, but how we can live life. Through out God’s holy word, we can find life lessons, knowledge that when applied to our lives become wisdom and soon, we find our lives built on a sure foundation.
There is an old hymn that tells us
My hope is built on nothing less
Than Jesus’ blood and righteousness
I dare not trust the sweetest frame
But wholly lean on Jesus’ name
On Christ, the solid rock, I stand
All other ground is sinking sand
When we build our lives on God’s word, lean on Jesus’ name we do not stand on loose pebbles finding ourselves thrown into a river cold and wet, rather we find a life footing solid and secure. Prayer: “Loving God, thank you for today and thank you for the security which your word brings to our lives. Hold us firmly
In My Heart
The author of this psalm, David, had some struggles in his life. One could say he made some awfully bad choices in his life. At minimum, he was human. Human mind, human heart, human choices, and desires but, as he grew older and wiser David understood the importance of God’s presence in his life. This is evident in these words
I keep your word close, in my heart, so that I won’t sin against you. Psalm 119:11
What is interesting about the verse is that heart is more than just the thing that pumps your blood. In Hebrew, the word that translates into heart means more, it is the place that you feel feelings, the place where you think thoughts. It really refers to the core of who you are, your will, your desires, your intentions.
You see when David writes this, that he has hidden God’s word in his heart, he is saying he is making God’s desire central in his life, that God’s word will be a part of all aspects of his life. His motives, his desires, his decisions, his feelings. David is placing God’s word into every part of who he is. Making God’s desires the priority in his life
By doing this, by filling every nook and cranny of who he is with God’s word, his heart is changed, his life transformed. I would encourage us all to find a way to do just that, to fill not just our feelings with God’s word but our will, our desires, our choices, our very being with God’s word, that we too might experience a change in our lives.
Take time to memorize scripture verses each day or every week. Consider meditating on a scripture verse each day, breathe it into your deepest parts that it may dwell with in you. And there are some who will pray over scripture each day. Ask God to have it settle into your heart just where it needs to be. In doing so, we can begin to see a change in our life and in the lives around us.
Prayer: “You are a true and faithful God, even when we might make a horrible choice, you are there, to love us and to guide us. Let the wisdom and love of your Holy Word fill our very being that we might live as you have asked us to live. Hold us firmly and guide us gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Come Closer
“Finally let’s draw near to the throne of favor with confidence so that we can receive mercy and find grace when we need it.” Hebrews 4:16
I wonder as a child; did you ever do anything you were not supposed to do. I mean, was there a time that your mom, or your dad, or someone who cared about you told you, “Don’t do…” because they wanted to keep you from being hurt?
I would have been about 12, we’d just moved back into our house, t had been destroyed by a tornado. Soon after we got back in, lumber and nails were delivered so that the garage out back could also be rebuilt. Dad told me, “Rob, I don’t want you messing with the lumber or those nails.” My response, “Yes Dad” but in my mind it was wait, boards, nails. His words had no more faded off and I had grabbed a hammer and went out back. I got that nail lined up and the hammer raised above my head. I swung as hard as I could, trying to drive that 16-penny nail all the way into the board with one blow.
Breaking news alert, it didn’t work that way, rather the head of the hammer came crashing down onto my thumb nail. At that very moment, I let out a wail like I was a firetruck head to rescue a baby. The hammer went flying and I went running, right to dad.
His words were calming, merciful, loving and kind. He double checked everything and then went and got an ice bag and helped me hold it there for a couple of minutes while pulling me closely to comfort me. In that moment, he didn’t lecture me, punish me rather I knew, love, mercy, and grace.
Just as my father pulled me closely and cared for me in that moment, even though I’d done what he had told me not too, our heavenly Father, calls us in closely to where he is seated, holding us closely, offering us mercy and grace and love, even when we have turned away from Him or done what he has told us not to do.
So, no matter what may be troubling you today, what might be causing you pain, even it it’s because you picked hammer and…bring it to Jesus today. Move closer and rest in God’s loving mercy and grace.
Prayer: “Lord, thank you that that I can come to you, no matter what. I come now to let your mercy and your grace flow over me in this moment. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways.
Be Still
The LORD will fight for you, you need only be still. Exodus 14:14
I want you to stop, sit back and imagine for a moment. Have you ever been in a situation where you’ve had worries about your job or finances on one side and concerns about your health or the well being of your parents, children or a loved one (not saying your parents and children are people you love)? Have you, have you ever been in a life situation where it felt like you were surrounded?
In this scripture, that is where we find the Israelites who are fleeing pharaoh, who has kept them in captivity and in slavery. pharaoh’s army are on the hills above them. The chariots pulled by mighty horses; battle tested warriors covered in gleaming armor. To the other side is a great body of water, the Red sea.
And the message from God Moses shares is, be still. The LORD will fight for you, just be still. I know when life has come at me from all directions the last thing, I want to do is be still. I suspect we experience that fight or flight mode where our hearts are pounding and our minds race, seeking out solutions, ways that we might be able to fight off or escape the things that are seemingly attacking us.
Yet what we hear from God is, “be still”, let your hearts not be troubled, let your minds be calm. In the verses that follow God tells Moses that He will eliminate those who are chasing them and give them a way out. The sea was parted, and the Israelites were able to escape and as pharaoh’s army followed, the sea came in upon the Egyptian army.
We may feel as trapped as the Israelites in our current situation, but God tells us to be still, I am the Lord, I will fight for you. God is responding to your situation, we must seek His responses in our life, that God might be glorified in his presence and unfailing love of God’s children. I mean, who would have thought that huge body of water would have been dived or that the greatest army defeated. God is responding just “be still and see His presence.
Prayer “Father God, you are present always and everywhere, help us to be still, to find You, to trust that You are battling for us in unimaginable ways. Let us find the peace of your presence. Hold us firmly and guide us gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
A Little Discipline
No discipline is fun while it lasts but it seems painful at the time. Later, however it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness for those who have been trained by it. Hebrews 12:11
As children, we can’t wait to be adults its going to be so cool. We can do what we want, go to bed when we want, eat what we want to spend what we want and no one, I mean no one can tell us otherwise. But soon, after we move out on our own, we begin to realize that’s not the truth.
The moments we couldn’t wait to see the postman bring us apprehension, fear and worry because what gets dropped off into our mailbox are, bills. Bills for power, water, internet and not that slow stuff mom and dad had, but high-speed cable. And while we’re at it, our cable bill (if we still have cable) isn’t just for a few channels its for everything, including HBO, Showtime, NFL, and the NBA. And the fine, fine clothes, well the credit card bills will be here next week. It hurts as we open the envelopes and come to the realization.
Then there is the idea of going to bed at 2 or 3 every day with the painful realization that nap time stopped a few years ago. Or how you need to put your head down for a moment and find a little peace.
This selection of scripture really hit struck a chord. I have struggle with diet and exercise all of my life and my lack of discipline shows, in the energy that I have and the way that I look. While, exercise does cause some soreness and some fatigue, in the long run I know that I am better off. If I can make the sacrifice now, I will be healthier and I will most likely live a longer, joy filled life.
Jesus tells us that the two most important rules we are to live by are to, love God with all that we are, heart mind body and soul and to love heart mind body and soul and loving others as much as we love ourselves. To live into these two rules is difficult, it may cause us some pain or force us to make difficult decisions but when we choose to do so, when we discipline ourselves by spending time with God each day, deepening our relationship. When we consciously choose to love, sacrificially giving of ourselves to those who surround us we find a life that is purposeful.
I would encourage you, get yourself on a budget or a regular sleeping plan or a diet and exercise plan and stick with it. We didn’t get where we are overnight and as you, find ways to deepen your relationship with God. Begin a reading plan, or find three times a day to offer a short prayer to God, as simple as, “thank you God for being with me here and now”. And/or find a way to make a difference in a life each day, volunteer, talk to your neighbor, check on a friend.
Prayer “God, thank you for today and your presence in my life. I trust in you Lord, hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways, Amen”
The Power
If you have spent some time reading the bible, especially the Old Testament, you will read that the Israelites were focused on building a dwelling place for God. Even today if you were to go to Jerusalem you would find Jews praying at the western wall of the temple, the holiest place in Jerusalem, but what we read here and what we understand is that God does not dwell in a place, rather God is within each of us. Our Scripture reads:
“Rather, you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria and to the end of the earth” Acts 1:8
Rather than living in a structure, the Spirit of God lives in each of us and because of that we have access to the unimaginable power of God. We have the ability to witnesses to the power of God to those around us, to the ends of the earth because the Holy Spirit has given us the power of joy, patience peace, kindness, faithfulness, and love.
Each and every one of us can be witnesses to the world, not because of who we are or our own power but because of the power of God’s Holy Spirit that lives us. We are a city on a hillside, a candle in the darkness shinning not just in our own backyard but across the world. Consider this, the light that shines brightly in the distance shines brightest at home.
I encourage you to take steps the make that light shine for all to see. Commit to learning more about God’s Word. If you don’t currently have a church home, check with friends, and find a place where you can learn. If you do, set a goal to make God a bigger priority, making your faith journey the center of your life. Seek out a mentor, ask someone to help guide you in your journey. You will find that as you become closer to God, the life that you know will become the life that you knew.
Prayer: “Almighty God, thank you for today, that you for the presence of your Holy Spirit and the abilities and qualities that are possible because of the Spirit, help me to tap into that power that my light might shine throughout this dark world. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your ways. Amen”
Where you are…
“When I look up at you skies, at what your gingers made-the moon and the stars that you set firmly in place-what are human beings; that you think about them, what are human beings that you pay attention to them?” – Psalms 8:3-4
Have you ever sat next to a campfire and looked up at the stars? How about sat next to a lake as the sun came up? I guess what I’m asking is have you ever considered just how big God is? In this scripture what David is reminding us of just how big God truly is.
In this Psalm, David goes on to say, who am I that God, the creator of the universe. The One who’s fingers created the skies, set the moon and the stars in place, would think about us. He, David, is reminding us that even considering how big God is, God loves us right where we are.
So be encouraged, no matter the situation or the circumstances you might be going through, the Creator of the Universe, sees you AND loves you, right where you are. Prayer: “Creator God, thank you for today. Every time I look up or look around let me be encouraged knowing that you are present in my life, that you see me and that you love me, right where I am. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in your will and in your
Patiently Waiting
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.
Psalm 27:14
It is hard to wait, isn’t it? I mean we have become a society where we want everything now but idea, the concept of waiting in the bible is really the idea of being twisted together, like braiding your hair or tying a boat to a cleat at a dock.
If you pull a boat up to the side of a dock, the current and the wind will push it all over the place but if we tightly wrap and intertwine the line around the cleat, it will remain securely where it is supposed to be.
To wait on the Lord is to wrap or intertwine our lives with and within the Lord, that we will find security, courage, and shelter. To wrap ourselves in the Lord means we do not look outside the Lord in our problems. It doesn’t mean that we do nothing, it means that we go to God and seek his help to find stability and security in our lives.
When we wrap, intertwine ourselves in God’s presence we will find that we are no longer blown around by the situations and circumstances of life but that we will find stability, courage, and peace in all our situations in life.
I would encourage you to pray about the big tings that we are struggling to resolve, talk to a friend about who is also a believe in Jesus about what’s going on and keep a journal, write down what you are trusting God with, then refer back often.
Prayer: “Lord God, thank you for today, help me to seek you in all aspects of my life, let me intertwine my very being with you that in all things I may find stability and security. Hold me firmly and guide me gently in you will and in your ways. Amen”
This Is It
“All the Law has been fulfilled in a simple statement, “’Love your neighbor as yoursel’f”.
Galatians 5:14
Go back up and read that again, I’ll wait, go on really, read it again
In that one scripture, the Apostle Paul sums up the whole law, the law of Mosses, that is 613 commandments. Things you should do, things you shouldn’t do. Can you imagine, living your life trying to remember 613 different things to do or not do in every aspect of your life? We’d never get anything done trying to figure out if you are complying with the laws.
But, with this, through the grace of God, Paul tells us that we can satisfy, that we can comply with all the laws by simply to “love your neighbor as yourself”. Is that it? Could it be that simple? Is that really all we have to do?
What the Apostle Paul has done is take the overwhelming and the complicated and clear, concise, and simple. The Church, followers of Jesus Christ will no longer live by a list of rules, regulations, and laws but rather we should love our neighbor as we love ourselves. Love the folks next door, at the store, online, really anywhere you meet them. Whether its folks we like, don’t like, and even folks who don’t like you, we should treat them with loving respect. Imagine how different the world would be if we began living in this way.
I encourage you to begin the change in the world that surrounds you. With a smile introduce yourself, it may be the only smile they see all day. Take time to ask someone around you “how things are going right now” and then, listen to them. Offer to help with something they are doing or working on, how many times have you been in a situation, where an extra set hands would have made all the difference. Find a way to respond positively to a post or a person you may not agree with (BTW that doesn’t mean you write, “I’m positive you are an idiot”)
I believe that as we bless those around us with this love, God will bless us in the same way, pouring our love in your day and in your life.
Prayer: “God, thank you for today and thank you for your presence in my life. Thank you for the witness of love through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. Help us to find ways to love our neighbor that we might change the world. Hold us firmly and guide us gently in your will and in your ways. Amen
Share the ways you have shared love with your neighbors today.